Grandparents and Extended Family in BC Family Law

The Honest Starting Point

Search for "grandparents rights BC" and you will find pages that promise a lot. Here is the honest version: British Columbia law gives grandparents no automatic right to see their grandchildren. A child's guardians, usually the parents, decide who spends time with the child. That is the legal starting point, and any lawyer who tells you otherwise is not doing you a favour.

But the starting point is not the end of the road. The Family Law Act gives people who are not guardians, and it names grandparents specifically, a way to ask a court for contact with a child. And in serious situations, extended family members can apply to become a child's guardian. This page explains both routes, and the practical steps worth trying before either one.

SiLaw Group Family Lawyers is a boutique family law and mediation firm in South Surrey. Family law is the only kind of law we practise, and we serve clients in English and Punjabi. We will tell you plainly what a court is likely to be able to do for you before you spend money finding out the hard way.

Contact Orders Under Section 59

The legal route for grandparents is a contact order. Under section 59 of the Family Law Act, a court may make an order respecting contact with a child, including the terms and form of that contact. The court may grant contact to any person who is not a guardian, and the section expressly includes a parent or grandparent (s. 59(2)). If the court is satisfied it is needed, it can also require that the contact be supervised (s. 59(3)).

There is one test, and only one. In making an order about contact, the court must consider the best interests of the child only (s. 37(1)). Not the grandparent's wishes, not fairness between the adults, not family history for its own sake. The factors include the child's health and emotional well-being, the child's views unless it would be inappropriate to consider them, and the nature and strength of the relationships between the child and significant persons in the child's life (s. 37(2)). A grandparent who has been a steady, significant presence is in a different position than one the child barely knows. We explain the full test on our best interests of the child page.

For a deeper look at how these applications actually work, read our post on contact orders for non-guardians in BC. For how contact fits into the wider system of parenting arrangements, see our parenting services.

Talk First, Mediate Second, Court Last

A court application names the child's parents as the people you are fighting. Win or lose, they still control most of the child's life, so the order you win can sit inside a relationship you have damaged. That is why we suggest the routes in this order:

1. Talk first. A calm, direct conversation, or a short letter that asks rather than demands, resolves more of these situations than most people expect.
2. Try mediation. A neutral mediator can help everyone say what they are actually worried about and build an arrangement the parents can live with. Our family mediation services handle exactly these conversations.
3. Court as the last tool. If contact is refused and the relationship matters to the child, a section 59 application is available. We prepare it carefully, with evidence focused on the child, not on the conflict.

Guardianship in Serious Situations

Sometimes the problem is bigger than contact. When a parent has died, is struggling with addiction or illness, or cannot care for a child, grandparents and other extended family members sometimes step in. Under section 51 of the Family Law Act, a court may, on application, appoint a person as a child's guardian.

This is a serious application, and the Act treats it that way. The applicant must give the court evidence about the child's best interests, in the form the court rules require (s. 51(2)), and that requirement applies even when everyone consents (s. 51(3)). If the child is 12 or older, the court cannot appoint someone other than a parent as guardian without the child's written approval, unless it is satisfied the appointment is in the child's best interests (s. 51(4)). Guardianship brings parental responsibilities, not just time together, so it is not a shortcut for a grandparent who really wants contact. It is for situations where a child needs someone to step up.

Frequently Asked Questions

Do Grandparents Have Automatic Rights to See Grandchildren in BC?

No. In British Columbia, guardians decide who spends time with a child, and grandparents have no automatic legal right to visits. What the Family Law Act does provide is the ability to apply for a contact order under section 59, which the court decides on the best interests of the child only.

What Does a Court Look At in a Grandparent Contact Application?

Only the best interests of the child (s. 37(1)). The factors include the child's health and emotional well-being, the child's views where appropriate, the strength of the existing relationship with the grandparent, the history of the child's care, and the child's need for stability. The stronger and more recent your real role in the child's life, the stronger the application tends to be.

Can a Grandparent Become a Child's Guardian?

Yes, by court order under section 51, and it does happen in serious situations. The applicant must provide the evidence the court rules require about the child's best interests, and a child who is 12 or older must generally approve in writing before a non-parent is appointed. It is a significant step that brings real responsibility, and it deserves legal advice before you start.

What Should I Do Before Applying to Court?

Try talking, then try mediation. An arrangement the parents agree to is usually more durable than one a judge imposes on them, and it avoids turning the people who control your grandchild's daily life into opponents. If those routes fail, the court application is still there.

Talk to a Surrey Family Lawyer Who Will Give It to You Straight

If you are losing touch with a grandchild, or a child in your family needs someone to step in, talk it through with a lawyer first. The first 30 minutes are free, in English or Punjabi, by phone, video, or in person at Suite 201, 3108 Croydon Drive in South Surrey.

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This page is legal information, not legal advice. For advice about your own situation, speak with a lawyer.